Kathleen M. Milliken

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The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
1-866-331-9474 or 1-866-331-8453 TTY
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We Are Adult Survivors of Domestic Violence
This website is dedicated to the tens of millions of adult survivors of child abuse and neglect who get up every day and try to work and function in a world that seems to not care about us.
http://www.wearesurvivors.org/
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Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men & Women. www.dahmw.org  1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) Located in Main, available 24/7

Valley Oasis Shelter for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning population and works with:
Domestic Violence Hotline for AVDVC is 1-800-282-4808 Located in California available 24/7.
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How do you know if you are being abused? Below is a list provided with permission by the National Domestic Violence Hotline www.thehotline.org.

National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline

Does your partner:

  • Embarrass you with put-downs?
  • Look at you or act in ways that scare you?
  • Control what you do, who you see, or talk to, or where you go?
  • Stop you from seeing your friends or family members?
  • Take your money or Social Security check, make you ask for money or refuse to give you money?
  • Make all of the decisions?
  • Tell you that you’re a bad parent or threaten to take away or hurt your children?
  • Prevent you from working or attending school?
  • Act like the abuse is no big deal, it’s your fault, or even deny doing it?
  • Destroy your property or threaten to kill your pets?
  • Intimidate you with guns, knives or other weapons?
  • Shove you, slap you, choke you, or hit you?
  • Force you to try and drop charges?
  • Threaten to commit suicide?
  • Threaten to kill you?

If you answered ‘yes’ to even one of these questions, you may be in an abusive relationship.


And as always, if you are in extreme danger, call 911.
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Resource Web Links:
Recommended Books:

Victims No Longer by Mike Lew
The Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass and Lauren Davis
Allies in Healing by Laura Davis

To Bank or Not to Bank" by Loi Chan, Founder of Save Exploited Women Foundation.  
A True Personal Story of Faith, Hope and Love available at:
Amazon.com


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